How would you describe your average day?
Here are some common answers I see to this question. People often describe their day as being:
In contrast, how would you describe your ideal day? How do you WISH your average day was?
For me, my average day is generally fulfilling, fun, and productive.
As much as I love a good vacation in the Colorado mountains, I would get a bit stir crazy if I didn’t ever have something to put my hand to. And, of course, if all I ever did was work, I’d burn myself out — which is what I used to do.
I used to work 70 hours a week. In 2015 I only took about 10 days off the whole year. I even worked over my Christmas vacation! Yikes.
It took me years to become comfortable with taking time off. Evenings, weekends, long lunches, even vacations… I would feel guilty if I wasn’t cramming every minute of my day with something productive and important.
Dr. Richard Swenson writes, in his book on Margin, that we must “develop the necessary underpinnings for margin that will allow us to accept its importance without guilt. For just as we need to eat and sleep, so we also need to breathe.”
When you’re at capacity, there is no room for anything else. But when there is space left over — when there is margin — that space enables you to breath.
3 signs you may need some margin in your day:
You feel fatigued, hurried, and anxious rather than excited, calm, and secure.
You have little or no time for your own projects and passions because your day is filled up having to respond to so many other urgent issues.
You often wake up to your day, rather than waking up for your day.
If that sounds too familiar, good news: We’ve developed some simple frameworks and systems that help you create your ideal day — one with margin, flexibility, and freedom.
Margin Means Options, Flexibility, and Freedom
When you have margin in your life, you have more flexibility.
Flexibility that allows for breathing room in your life for things such as…
- A calendar that isn’t overflowing with obligations
- The flexibility to adjust your schedule when you want or need, without consequences
- Freedom to spend time with the people who matter most to you
- Plenty of time to think and work without urgency and looming deadlines
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